You began working in a glass studio at fifteen. You were an artist. A talented woman, a kind-hearted creator, a towering beauty, an authentic environmentalist.
Decades later, I’d meet you as my future-mother-in-law, and we’d become the dearest of friends.
This post is dedicated to the working woman…
(I sketched Karole from an old photo – one I adore to this day. The 2 faded photo images are from Karole’s modeling days)
Despair is a fast trade commodity these days. I post these words-because I do despair-but I’m not giving up. Writing like this helps me face my fears-and once you face the monster-you see the best ways to defeat it…
‘Tis true – we dwell in a ufo-embracing town – the kind that breathes Halloween – aliens, creatures, princesses and all – in every deliciously macabre direction
Armed with 3,000 pieces of candy, we’re ready for the costumed onslaught.
Happy Halloween Be safe Be smart and remember – over-sugaring doesn’t make us sweet;) kindness comes from within
am:) (featured above – my little pumpkin kid – a great dancer who can pirouette atop any pumpkin)
In the early 2000s, I saw a local newspaper ad soliciting 101 word stories. For some reason, I was drawn to the idea and submitted a few stories. I don’t remember if they got published.
The limitation concept stuck with me, and I started 101 Words in December 2005. In those early days, I only posted my own stories and a few from friends. I didn’t open it up to the public until 2007.
In November 2014, I decided to go all in and turn 101 Words into something special.
My vision for 101 Words is a comprehensive ecosystem and community that can support writers, editors, and readers. This vision is a work in progress, and I hope you stick around to watch it grow.
A March 2024 sketch done with a ridiculously large Ticonderoga preschooler pencil “Little Karole” would blossom into a six-foot-tall, gorgeous woman who’d live an amazing life as a stained glass artist. And much later, she’d become my beautiful mother-in-law.
perhaps it is my 60 years of age inspiring the words below, it could be that the majority of my new friends, most in their 70’s and 80’s, continue to open my eyes in every direction but down
“to live”
I don’t believe the phrase “to live” means escaping our burdens
I don’t believe “to live” means transforming ourselves or collecting accolades
I don’t believe “to live” includes acquiring wealth or building empires
I don’t believe “to live” means ignoring the past or focusing on the remaining years as we age
I never believe “to live” is expressed through curated media or grinning images
I do believe “to live” creates dubious comparisons of one against the other
I do believe the phrase “what it means to live” suffocates dreams before they begin
I do believe “to live” finding strength in our efforts amid others indifference
“to live” brave in our ‘individualness’ while accepting others in theirs
“to live” caring for ourselves so we can care for others
“to live” stepping forward when we’ve lost someone behind us
And I always believe “to live for today” when it is tomorrow
Another recent sketch – I call this one, Movie Star Millie, drawn from a 3″ photo taken in Atlantic Citywhen my mom’s life was opened to an ocean of possibilities
To keep my focus on the spirit of an image and not become mired in details, “My First Ticonderoga” #2 HB lead pencil is the only art implement I use. This pencil is a cumbersome preschooler one. Many times while sketching, this ginormous lead pencil really pisses me off, but I persevere, because I need the practice.
Why Millie this morning –
While reorganizing my studio desk, I opened the box tucked in the far back of the top drawer. In the small box, a Metropolitan Museum angel ornament Millie had given me years back, plus, other keepsakes added along the way. One such keepsake, another gift from Millie, was a poem printed on ‘parchment’ and its accompanying angel pin whose wings had broken off and disappeared.
I got to thinking how missing wings don’t matter. Missing wings will never matter. Millie’s angel will always lift me up.
‘Overwhelmed’ looms on the flashing billboards of my irises ‘Uncertainty…’ notches tighter the belt of the world I’ve yet to decide on an acceptable version of heaven Still, I must not give into ‘the unfinished’ of the past newest year This will be the newest year!
My mettle must leap beyond obeyance of previous resolutions Fundamental confusion must not stymie my goodwill tenacity ‘Where to begin’ roadblocks must not unseat me On or off, I am driver, I am driver, I am driver In my hands, my keys, below my keys, my feet This will be the newest year!
The impractical apparatus of time must be accepted In the know is the ‘now’ where we all exist nothing more nothing less With less one can always make more, I can always make more This will be the newest year!
As this newest year approaches, wineries will bottle their harvests The media and social will continue their ‘rule of sale’ quintessential chaos begets profit, profit begets stockholders, stockholders rule the world “We can all save someone, we cannot save everyone” —good words for a nearby desk sticky note This will be the newest year!
Those standing ahead of my engine might consider I won’t have the balls to roll them And, they are correct There are ways around not having your goodness stolen Fire exists in many forms, I can choose one This will be the newest year!
Poe spoke of “long fits of sanity” before he fell into a coma while wearing someone else’s clothes There is something masterful in the un-mastered struggle the purity of the un-chartered quest on a quiet day ‘Hold to heart my windmill’ I must sing each morning as I shake the rust off my fingernails This will be the newest year!
Wishing you all a kinder and more peaceful newest year Here’s to 2023!